feat: sync arrow version with pyarrow and exclude it from whl

[SemyonSinchenko]

Reason for this PR

Close #836

What changes are included in this PR?

1. Pyarrow version was pinned
2. libarrow synced with pyarrow
3. libarrow is not included to the whl anymore
4. minor: I bumped versions

Are these changes tested?

No. I'm still trying the best way to test it. For MacOS most probably I need help.

Are there any user-facing changes?

No. Python package was not published.

Checklist

• I have performed a self-review of my own code.
• I have formatted my own code using make cpplint before submitting when changed files are in the cpp directory.
• I have performed pre-commit run before commit the changed files.
• I have added tests to prove my changes are effective.