Support SELECT wildcard RENAME modifiers

[osipovartem]

Summary

• implement Snowflake-style SELECT * RENAME for unqualified and qualified wildcards
• apply wildcard modifiers in semantic order: filter, replace, then rename
• validate missing, duplicate, and ambiguous REPLACE/RENAME targets
• normalize rename and replace identifiers through the SQL planner
• align the no-SQL sqlparser shim and stale lockfile revision with the configured parser revision

Performance

This is planning-only work. Wildcard output indices are built once in an O(columns) hash map and each modifier target is resolved in O(1) average time. No per-row conversion or execution operator is added; this also removes the previous O(columns x replacements) scan used by REPLACE.

Validation

• cargo test -p datafusion-sql --test sql_integration (599 passed)
• cargo test -p datafusion-expr --lib (249 passed)
• cargo check -p datafusion-expr --no-default-features
• cargo clippy -p datafusion-expr -p datafusion-sql --all-targets -- -D warnings

Coverage includes single/multiple rename, EXCLUDE + REPLACE + RENAME, qualified wildcards, quoted identifiers, and missing/duplicate/ambiguous targets.